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Had a great night of fun activities and playing games with the kiddos to ring in the new year, only to have to let them know one of our cats died at some point between 2 am when I went to sleep and 7 am when I woke up. Only saw our other cat while drinking my coffee and it wasn't until 10 am when everyone woke up that we wondered where Buttercup was at, as I just assumed she was sleeping in one of the kid's rooms.

After a few minutes of searching, I noticed a few pools of blood behind the TV stand and told the kids to go back upstairs with our other cat, Peanut, until we found Buttercup. She was in the corner behind the stand and rigor had already set in. From what I can tell, she either ate something foreign that perforated her upper digestive track (my thoughts) or had a fall with internal bleeding.

I spent the next 15 minutes cleaning up the blood and removing her body while my wife was sitting on the couch crying. I called the kids downstairs afterwards and broke the news. After around 5 minutes of crying my son asked if he could see her, so I spent a little time cleaning up the blood from the body and positioning her in a box so it wouldn't show. They were able to give her one last pet and Peanut was also able to say goodbye.

My wife found something online about taking paw print molds, so I did that right before I dug a hole at the corner of our property and placed her down, again to hide any additional blood seeping out of her mouth since the kids wanted to see her buried.

So now it's going to be a day of intermittent crying and grieving while also trying to keep their spirits up. Currently having a silly string battle in the yard.

RIP Buttercup

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Sorry for your loss.

Kids will get over it much quicker than you will. How long did you have the cat?
 
Sorry for your loss.

Kids will get over it much quicker than you will. How long did you have the cat?

We brought them home from the SPCA summer of 2020. Wife and kids had always wanted a cat, but I was allergic. I started taking allergy shots that spring, which I'm still taking, and said that I would be okay with getting one.....we came home with two.
 
Sounds like someone stepped on the cat. I accidently stepped on mine when she was kitten. Broke her hip. I thought she would have to be euthanized but she had no other injuries but the hip. It healed and she is a mess today...a lovable mess all the same.

Sorry about Buttercup.
 
In case anyone wants to know how the paw molds came out, they look pretty good. It's a mixture of flour and salt. My daughter wanted her hand as well to be placed in a shadow box with Buttercup's paw, a picture of her and her collar I took off.

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I told my wife I'm over these holiday/ anniversary pet deaths, since our rabbit died on our anniversary the summer after our son was born. Both mornings had me digging a hole in hard clay.
 
Sorry for your loss. Losing any pet is never easy.

When I was a kid I dug up a dead cat my grandma had buried in her yard. She let me think they were dinosaur bones. I taped them to an empty styrofoam plate, and marked each bone then took it to school where my teacher humiliated me in front of everybody by sending me to the office. Had to have a sit-down w my parents and principle about why I was bringing dead cat bones to school.
 
Shit man….so sorry. She was a good looking little cat.

And Im presuming only a few years old?
 
Sorry for your loss. Losing any pet is never easy.

When I was a kid I dug up a dead cat my grandma had buried in her yard. She let me think they were dinosaur bones. I taped them to an empty styrofoam plate, and marked each bone then took it to school where my teacher humiliated me in front of everybody by sending me to the office. Had to have a sit-down w my parents and principle about why I was bringing dead cat bones to school.

hahaha

your grandma just achieved legend status in my book. Haha.
 
Sorry for your loss. Losing any pet is never easy.

When I was a kid I dug up a dead cat my grandma had buried in her yard. She let me think they were dinosaur bones. I taped them to an empty styrofoam plate, and marked each bone then took it to school where my teacher humiliated me in front of everybody by sending me to the office. Had to have a sit-down w my parents and principle about why I was bringing dead cat bones to school.
:spit:

No words. :laugh:
 
Sorry for your loss. Losing any pet is never easy.

When I was a kid I dug up a dead cat my grandma had buried in her yard. She let me think they were dinosaur bones. I taped them to an empty styrofoam plate, and marked each bone then took it to school where my teacher humiliated me in front of everybody by sending me to the office. Had to have a sit-down w my parents and principle about why I was bringing dead cat bones to school.

Smart kid, that story is really good cover for where the bones came from. No one is spending any time to the looney bin in that scenario :thumb:
 
In case anyone wants to know how the paw molds came out, they look pretty good. It's a mixture of flour and salt. My daughter wanted her hand as well to be placed in a shadow box with Buttercup's paw, a picture of her and her collar I took off.

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Got something like that when our dog growing up died in June, and have something similar from when the cat died a few years ago. Sorry for you and your family's loss.
 
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Sorry to hear that. Hard to get any worse for the rest of the year, but hard to say. All years seem to be bittersweet anymore. The even years have been crappy day to day with little death, while odd years seem to go well but have deaths hitting unexpectedly when things seem be going well. Lately it all seems to be moving in fast forward.
 
Slyce says he's sorry for your lose....


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