He was "stepping out" from his days at Southern Miss and probably still is. If you had any idea what he, Chmura and Winters were like from about 93 forward in the Fox River Valley that would've been the least shocking thing to you of all time.
When people are tempted at that level it's hard for me to judge them as I'm not perfect and don't pretend to be. If we're honest about it, women are not the most innocent beings ever and some will do some ridiculous shit to get what they want when they're attracted.
This welfare thing is disgusting. Again, I'm far from perfect, but why in the hell would somebody that comes from nothing and hits it big just forget about where they came from and the difficulties of poverty? I can't answer, but I'm not a thief and the last people I would consider stealing from is the poor.