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These are some words of wisdom from my uncle. We were talking about some family shit, and we have not always been on the same side of things. We always find a way back to working it out between us, even if no one else is able to. "Only bitches hold grudges, and they ain't all women."
Typically when I am on the outs with family, its because I finally said what others were thinking, or afraid someone was going to say. My uncle gets pissed at me, because now his side of the family is going to be in his ear, and talking shit for weeks about what I said. He just hates the drama, and so do I, that's why I meet it head on. I refuse to play games, and my family didn't even know the term "passive aggressive" until I dropped it on them years and years ago. Ever since then I get(secretly)"you know we really are" or "are totally not passive aggressive." from them depending on who is around.
I cant control the people that keep score, and justify their reasons for being mad at me, or not liking me. I don't care really that much. I usually just treat people how they treat me, regardless of relationship. If someone pisses me off, chances are they will know, and we deal with it. I move on. Its up to them what they do with it.
Anyway, kind of rambling, but as it relates to here. It is so obvious that some posters cant let go of hatred/disdain/anger towards other posters. I know for a fact there are people here that don't like me. I don't like some others. I don't harbor any angst toward anyone, or try not to. Talking to my uncle today, reminded me not to be a bitch. Thought I would throw it out there to whoever may need it.
Happy Hanukah you fucking bunch of assholes.
Typically when I am on the outs with family, its because I finally said what others were thinking, or afraid someone was going to say. My uncle gets pissed at me, because now his side of the family is going to be in his ear, and talking shit for weeks about what I said. He just hates the drama, and so do I, that's why I meet it head on. I refuse to play games, and my family didn't even know the term "passive aggressive" until I dropped it on them years and years ago. Ever since then I get(secretly)"you know we really are" or "are totally not passive aggressive." from them depending on who is around.
I cant control the people that keep score, and justify their reasons for being mad at me, or not liking me. I don't care really that much. I usually just treat people how they treat me, regardless of relationship. If someone pisses me off, chances are they will know, and we deal with it. I move on. Its up to them what they do with it.
Anyway, kind of rambling, but as it relates to here. It is so obvious that some posters cant let go of hatred/disdain/anger towards other posters. I know for a fact there are people here that don't like me. I don't like some others. I don't harbor any angst toward anyone, or try not to. Talking to my uncle today, reminded me not to be a bitch. Thought I would throw it out there to whoever may need it.
Happy Hanukah you fucking bunch of assholes.