itsa me, Tuesday morning

[Guy Incognito]

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Got to bed around 4-4:30 "last night". After not sleeping well two nights ago, I feel great this morning. A sleep deprived gf who is angry at me combining with a also deprived me sounds brilliant.

What was your guys' over under? 21 months is looking pretty sweet on the betting line.

For what it's worth, the night of the rehearsal dinner, my wife told me she was having second thoughts about getting married. She'll also bring that up in arguments still, and that's 12 years ago.

She's probably freaking out because of her old green card marriage shit.

 

[Me]

It took me a while (and a few relationships) to mature and learn this. Let it go until there is cooler heads.

I'm not a fighter. I tend to overstep the line to where it becomes a "are you ever going to want to talk about it" issue

 

[Handicappers]

can't go wrong with Orvis gear.

I have a couple Orvis rods, mainly my 8 wt and 3 wt, but none of their waders/boots.

I thought about getting the boots, but these were much more comfortable. I have a pair of Orvis waders, but I usually wear the Patagonia ones that are pants...not the full bib.

Don't have any Orvis rods, but my buddy just got a Helios Blackout. He's been catching black seabass and spotted bass near Monterrey Mexico while he's out there working.

 

[DraftNerd]

I'm not a fighter. I tend to overstep the line to where it becomes a "are you ever going to want to talk about it" issue

Dont I know it? I’m either one who’s losing my shit, or I’m quiet and withdrawn. I’ve learned that I’m usually like the latter while I process things so I’m don’t just lose my shit.

Best advice I got on that is to just inform that im processing before I’m ready to talk.

I know….I didn’t know when I woke up that I was going to pop on here and be Dr Phil today either.

 

[redseat]

Welp, Landlord is ripping out the wall and a water tank. Good thing I called him... It was a broken water pump and causing a ton of mold... Ran into him this morning and he thanked me repeatedly, so that's nice

 

[ill]

no, she isn't....and I don't think that is why I was in a funk.

 

[Me]

For what it's worth, the night of the rehearsal dinner, my wife told me she was having second thoughts about getting married. She'll also bring that up in arguments still, and that's 12 years ago.

She's probably freaking out because of her old green card marriage shit.

I'm most definitely not the best communicator which never helps.

But I think part of it is her overthinking things because we were talking houses.

 

[ill]

was thinking about it last night....but do I want to get a king sized bed for my master bedroom...

 

[redseat]

was thinking about it last night....but do I want to get a king sized bed for my master bedroom...

Why wouldn't you?

 

[ill]

Why wouldn't you?

I like my current queen mattress...would have to buy new sheets, frame, etc....

 

[PnkPanther]

if it makes you feel any better NYC girl is mad at me (I think) because I mentioned that I am in a funk and she thinks it's because I am sad that my ex got married last week.

 

[PnkPanther]

 

[PnkPanther]

I'm most definitely not the best communicator which never helps.

But I think part of it is her overthinking things because we were talking houses.

If you need help with communication, I'm your guy

 

[PnkPanther]

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Got to bed around 4-4:30 "last night". After not sleeping well two nights ago, I feel great this morning. A sleep deprived gf who is angry at me combining with a also deprived me sounds brilliant.

What was your guys' over under? 21 months is looking pretty sweet on the betting line.

just propose

 

[Me]

just propose

Up until the last couple months, I was looking into it. Now it's more like 6 - never months away

 

[PnkPanther]

Up until the last couple months, I was looking into it. Now it's more like 6 - never months away

hopefully you guys can work it out

 

[SlinkyRedfoot]

For what it's worth, the night of the rehearsal dinner, my wife told me she was having second thoughts about getting married. She'll also bring that up in arguments still,

Fascinating. In what context? Like, "I knew I should have bailed?"

 

[PnkPanther]

For what it's worth, the night of the rehearsal dinner, my wife told me she was having second thoughts about getting married. She'll also bring that up in arguments still, and that's 12 years ago.

She's probably freaking out because of her old green card marriage shit.

now she's trapped with kids.

Smart thinking

 

[SlinkyRedfoot]

Dont I know it? I’m either one who’s losing my shit, or I’m quiet and withdrawn. I’ve learned that I’m usually like the latter while I process things so I’m don’t just lose my shit.

Best advice I got on that is to just inform that im processing before I’m ready to talk.

I know….I didn’t know when I woke up that I was going to pop on here and be Dr Phil today either.

I tend to just eat my emotions and keep it all to myself until I blow a 50-amp fuse.

 

[SlinkyRedfoot]

was thinking about it last night....but do I want to get a king sized bed for my master bedroom...

Ridiculous question. YES.