itsa me, Tuesday morning

DJ said:
Happened in April when we went to Vegas, I know you already know about that.
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SlinkyRedfoot said:
Word. One thing Mrs Redfoot will tell you is that if I feel I've fucked up, it won't take me long to realize it, acknowledge it and apologize.

Folks in my life respect that. The flip side though, is that if I don't think I've fucked up, I'm not budging. It's "I'm sorry you're upset. Call me when you're not."
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This one time...at band camp, Redfoot broke my drum set. STILL haven't head a word on that
 
gobucks0409 said:
Well, this one has more replies.


Got to bed around 4-4:30 "last night". After not sleeping well two nights ago, I feel great this morning. A sleep deprived gf who is angry at me combining with a also deprived me sounds brilliant.

What was your guys' over under? 21 months is looking pretty sweet on the betting line.
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time to put a ring on it.
 
Orlando_Eagles said:
Ah. That’s good further clarification. Oh Christ don’t I know this. There are always these things in relationships that don’t find resolution and just get tripped on again and again.

Admittedly, I have not cracked that code yet. I just have learned to try to find an alternate path for the frustration rather then blowing my stack. It’s not great, but I’m not making it worse (or I’m trying not to).

Solid C student here right now….and that might be generous.
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I have gotten better. My wife likes to push buttons, and then say," I don't know why you have to scream" when it is simply a raised tone. Then that passes me off even more. "Just because you're a bitch in calm tone, doesn't excuse it" has not served me well.

I typically just let shit go, because it isn't worth a fight. Until it is. Pick your battles if you will.

When I pick a hill to die on, I do it calmly now. Just stand my ground and not get upset, and let it fall where ever. Other than that, "it's whatever you want hun."
 
Peter Gozintite said:
I have gotten better. My wife likes to push buttons, and then say," I don't know why you have to scream" when it is simply a raised tone. Then that passes me off even more. "Just because you're a bitch in calm tone, doesn't excuse it" has not served me well.

I typically just let shit go, because it isn't worth a fight. Until it is. Pick your battles if you will.

When I pick a hill to die on, I do it calmly now. Just stand my ground and not get upset, and let it fall where ever. Other than that, "it's whatever you want hun."
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The bold part….all of this! That’s a conversation had in my home a lot. Less these days…..but I know that mother fucking line so well.

Especially since I’ve done a lot of work to not yell and scream. What she calls yelling is just inflected tone. What the fuck am I expected to be, a robot?

So yeah. I get that.
 
Peter Gozintite said:
I have gotten better. My wife likes to push buttons, and then say," I don't know why you have to scream" when it is simply a raised tone. Then that passes me off even more. "Just because you're a bitch in calm tone, doesn't excuse it" has not served me well.

I typically just let shit go, because it isn't worth a fight. Until it is. Pick your battles if you will.

When I pick a hill to die on, I do it calmly now. Just stand my ground and not get upset, and let it fall where ever. Other than that, "it's whatever you want hun."
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Mrs Pnk and I don't argue much, it's pretty nice

usually when they do, they're pretty minor
 
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