Have You Ever Met A Stranger Who Obviously Fucking Hated You?

Well I for one, have always let you know the reasons I don't like you.

Can't think of any at the moment. But when I do, I'll be sure to let you know.
Another jelly butte-hurt haytore
 
There is a guy at my gym who obviously fucking hates me. Watches me a lot, doesn’t move if we happen to be walking towards each other. Throws his weights around if I’m anywhere near him, making a big scene.

Never talked to this guy or interacted w him other than recently asking him if he was using the dip bar. He looks all pissed and says “Yeah!” so naturally I ask how many sets left and he says “Five!” so I say “Oh, wow. Okay.” and walk away.

Yesterday he’s in the same area where the dip bar is, and I start using it. He starts throwing shit around, slamming weighs and making noise to illustrate his unhinged hatred for me.

Big fat fuck too.

Not the first time a gym member has hated my guts but the incident was another lifetime ago over 20 years ago. So I don’t think it’s me.

Has your sheer presence ever irritated a stranger who just seems to hate your guts for no reason?

Yes. Long-time employee who I met really once before and I gave him a what for about a member interaction. (Year ago) Now I am his director manager. Next interaction didn't go so well either. He's about to find out just how much that will not go in his favor. Including his career. Sad really as he is a stocking beast.
 
Yeah, I've had people not like me for unknown reasons. I'm guessing that usually it's because I'm such a cool cat, they're likely jealous. I can usually win them over somehow, like setting up a deadly trap for them, and then saving them from it at the last minute.
For me it's my hair. Jealous will jealous.
 
Coincidentally, if you would've asked that before Friday, I would not have thought of a single instance. However, Friday I was surprisingly the victim of blatant racism. It wasn't because of the person I am or any level of personal aura, it was very clearly because of the color of my skin.

I stopped into a chicken place to grab some strips quick for lunch. The black dude behind the counter completely stonewalled my existence. I was the only one at the counter or customer within 50 feet of him. I stood there waiting for service for about a full minute and he just looked right past me without the slightest acknowledgement but it was very clear he knew I was there. Finally, I interjected "I'd like three strips please". He grumbled something then said "sauce?". "No thanks", I said; then he just proceeded to stand there and not serve me.

Right after that, a light-skinned black gal walked within about 20 feet of the counter and the black dude behind the counter smiled and exclaimed "can I help you, miss?!?" "No thanks, I'm just looking at the menu" she retorted.

Finally, the south-central-Asian (Indian/Pakistani/etc.) gal coworker of the black dude stepped in and rang me up and got me on my way.
You sure he didn't say "sawce suh?

Here is a pro tip next time you are being ignored like that just throw out a "hey boy"
 
That’s kind of what I said.

Not usually something you hear a guy say. He was very short though.
with all due respect if someone used that phrase with me I would not be able to keep a straight face
 
There is a guy at my gym who obviously fucking hates me. Watches me a lot, doesn’t move if we happen to be walking towards each other. Throws his weights around if I’m anywhere near him, making a big scene.

Never talked to this guy or interacted w him other than recently asking him if he was using the dip bar. He looks all pissed and says “Yeah!” so naturally I ask how many sets left and he says “Five!” so I say “Oh, wow. Okay.” and walk away.

Yesterday he’s in the same area where the dip bar is, and I start using it. He starts throwing shit around, slamming weighs and making noise to illustrate his unhinged hatred for me.

Big fat fuck too.

Not the first time a gym member has hated my guts but the incident was another lifetime ago over 20 years ago. So I don’t think it’s me.

Has your sheer presence ever irritated a stranger who just seems to hate your guts for no reason?
Sounds like a courting ritual and you’re just playing hard to get.
 
If you’ve ever stared into the face of real, unbridled hatred, it would stay with you, and you wouldn’t casually use the word, hate.
 
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