Last Tuesday of September

[kobesgame]

She did put it in storage.

"I thought you would be more happy for me than mad about your beer"

I am very confused about this entire scenario.

 

[Peter Gozintite]

I am very confused about this entire scenario.

She has trashed beer before, and this time didnt. So he should be happy that she just hid it this time. I think.

 

[Guy Incognito]

She has trashed beer before, and this time didnt. So he should be happy that she just hid it this time. I think.

I don't think she trashed beer before, just said he had too much and/or drank too much.

 

[Peter Gozintite]

I don't think she trashed beer before, just said he had too much and/or drank too much.

I think he just didnt tell everyone she did.

 

[Me]

I don't think she trashed beer before, just said he had too much and/or drank too much.

This

 

[Handicappers]

@ill

Had a rough day. Went into the hospital for a minor same day heart surgery. They weren’t sure if they would go in through my wrist or my groin so they had to shave my groin in prep - and it wasn’t a chick this time...

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And they went in through my wrist anyways.

Congrats on the sex, fat tits.

 

[ill]

She did put it in storage.

"I thought you would be more happy for me than mad about your beer"

Happy for her for what?

 

[Bender]

She

Getting the "weight" off her shoulders

by hiding your alcohol she's clearly saying you need to hide your alcoholism. bars for the games from here on out.

 

[kobesgame]

She

Getting the "weight" off her shoulders

Getting what weight off her shoulders? Even with additional posts on the situation, I still have no idea what the fuck has happened here.

 

[ill]

Getting what weight off her shoulders? Even with additional posts on the situation, I still have no idea what the fuck has happened here.

it's a very passive aggressive weight

 

[Me]

Getting what weight off her shoulders? Even with additional posts on the situation, I still have no idea what the fuck has happened here.

She's never liked my large quantity of beer that I had, which is kind of fair... It is quite a bit. Whole I have done a better job of not getting too drunk, I have gotten pretty drunk a little more often recently, and her kind of "last straw" was Saturday night. Yesterday, she loaded up all of the beer and took it to a storage space. She wants me to get rid of nearly all of it (not drink it). She has a different viewpoint of alcohol than I do... She doesn't think it's normal to have a beer at home by yourself. It should be an occasion thing.

I will admit that I, on occasion, do struggle with over imbibing, though I have done better lately. Having alcohol around isn't the cause of that though. When that happens, it's being out at bars late.

 

[ill]

She's never liked my large quantity of beer that I had, which is kind of fair... It is quite a bit. Whole I have done a better job of not getting too drunk, I have gotten pretty drunk a little more often recently, and her kind of "last straw" was Saturday night. Yesterday, she loaded up all of the beer and took it to a storage space. She wants me to get rid of nearly all of it (not drink it). She has a different viewpoint of alcohol than I do... She doesn't think it's normal to have a beer at home by yourself. It should be an occasion thing.

I will admit that I, on occasion, do struggle with over imbibing, though I have done better lately. Having alcohol around isn't the cause of that though. When that happens, it's being out at bars late.

Now, I'm contemplating if it's worth it to adjust (unnecessarily, imo) and work through it, or just move on.

I vote for adjust

 

[kobesgame]

She's never liked my large quantity of beer that I had, which is kind of fair... It is quite a bit. Whole I have done a better job of not getting too drunk, I have gotten pretty drunk a little more often recently, and her kind of "last straw" was Saturday night. Yesterday, she loaded up all of the beer and took it to a storage space. She wants me to get rid of nearly all of it (not drink it). She has a different viewpoint of alcohol than I do... She doesn't think it's normal to have a beer at home by yourself. It should be an occasion thing.

I will admit that I, on occasion, do struggle with over imbibing, though I have done better lately. Having alcohol around isn't the cause of that though. When that happens, it's being out at bars late.

Now, I'm contemplating if it's worth it to adjust (unnecessarily, imo) and work through it, or just move on.

I obviously don’t know the specifics of your drinking habits, but it seems like there has been a string of things that she’s flipping out about. If you have an issue with drinking, then you have to figure out what to do. If you don’t have a drinking issue, then she needs to chill.

What I can say is making unilateral decisions…either of you….is a terrible way to approach things. Doomed for failure. So be careful before you make house/marriage/kid decisions. You have to be on the same page before pulling the trigger on any of that.

 

[ill]

Well, the finger is well off the trigger, and safety is set on that now

so you are choosing beer over her?

 

[Bender]

so you are choosing beer over her?

the guy goes on vacations centered around breweries, the converse is she's asking him to give up one of his favorite things over her irrational outlook on it. what other behaviors, hobbies, or decisions is she going to suddenly think is not normal?

 

[ill]

the guy goes on vacations centered around breweries, the converse is she's asking him to give up one of his favorite things over her irrational outlook on it. what other behaviors, hobbies, or decisions is she going to suddenly think is not normal?

he can still do all that, but show a little moderation.

if she wants him to settle down with her and have kids, he is going to have to

 

[Bender]

he can still do all that, but show a little moderation.

if she wants him to settle down with her and have kids, he is going to have to

the fact he has a large supply of beer tells me he does do it in moderation.

if i were to buy alcohol, there wouldn't be a supply of it growing .

 

[ill]

the fact he has a large supply of beer tells me he does do it in moderation.

if i were to buy alcohol, there wouldn't be a supply of it growing .

his Untappd says otherwise

 

[Me]

so you are choosing beer over her?

"So be careful before you make house/marriage/kid decisions. You have to be on the same page before pulling the trigger on any of that."

 

[PnkPanther]

Holy fuck ...SA threw away all of my beer