OK, I'll bite. I've got a LOT of employees spread over several companies and here's the way it should work. Someone is contacted about a job and after some tentative discussions it looks like it's really interesting. No problem with that. And maybe the discussions develop into a tentative offer. No problem with that either. BUT here is where integrity comes into play: the worker should then sit down and talk to the employer in confidence and explain why they are considering another offer. The employer is now informed and can address any issues that he/she may not have been aware of that contributed to the worker considering other employment. If both parties keep it classy, one of two things will happen: either the employer will make a counter offer than can involve money, advancement, different working conditions, whatever and the worker can now make a decision.......leave or stay. If they stay, everything's fine. (Bob Stoops did that TWICE at OU and stayed both times because they worked it out.) Or the worker politely declines the counter offer and they work out the best way for the separation to be handled. Riley did none of that and I know it for a fact. He mislead Castligione with a sin of omission. Joe's not stupid so he could feel something was wrong. Hell, I told people a month ago something was up and I even harped on this message board how I wasn't comfortable with Riley. I had zero inside information Riley was going to bail out and go to USC but I am a helluva judge of employees. There is a right way and a wrong way to leave a job. Riley did everything wrong because he's a classless dude with a talent for coaching offense. We will be fine. He won't be long term. That's a character flaw that will eventually bite him and he'll pay the price. When he gets suddenly canned someday it will be because his boss knows Riley isn't the kind of guy you can trust to be fair and square when it gets right down to the nut cutting. Good luck with him. You'll win a lot of games with him.