Under the Porch with the Guide Bear!

I wouldn’t go a second time if it’s a woman.

But that’s just me.
 
Parka said:
I'm on it. And Bunny already agreed to join me but I get to go first all by my lonesome! How very exciting!
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I would say to be as open and honest as you can be. When they ask you to tell them about yourself, do it. Start at the beginning, of You. Not you and Bunny. Work on YOU, and things with Bunny will work out, one way or another. Don't think of it as a short term way to get back "in', but a way to get the the root of YOURSELF, and why you have your issues.

When you guys go together, that's different, and should give you guys tools to communicate batter. Don't play the blame game, just try to figure out where it coming from. The fight is almost never about the current argument, and is always about other resentment, or unresolved anger/hurt.
 
Peter Gozintite said:
I would say to be as open and honest as you can be. When they ask you to tell them about yourself, do it. Start at the beginning, of You. Not you and Bunny. Work on YOU, and things with Bunny will work out, one way or another. Don't think of it as a short term way to get back "in', but a way to get the the root of YOURSELF, and why you have your issues.

When you guys go together, that's different, and should give you guys tools to communicate batter. Don't play the blame game, just try to figure out where it coming from. The fight is almost never about the current argument, and is always about other resentment, or unresolved anger/hurt.
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You always tell me the best advice no matter the topic!

:director: HOORAY FOR @Peter Gozintite
 
Parka said:
You always tell me the best advice no matter the topic!

:director: HOORAY FOR @Peter Gozintite
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And on the other side of the advice spectrum...

Have you tried jerking off in the same bed, while she's sleeping and finishing on her hair?

I mean...I'm pretty sure that would let her know you mean business, and won't be a pushover.:noidea:

Might work...might not. I'm not as good at this as Peter.
 
beardown07 said:
And on the other side of the advice spectrum...

Have you tried jerking off in the same bed, while she's sleeping and finishing on her hair?

I mean...I'm pretty sure that would let her know you mean business, and won't be a pushover.:noidea:

Might work...might not. I'm not as good at this as Peter.
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I knew a guy like that. He was married for about 6 months.
 
Peter Gozintite said:
I knew a guy like that. He was married for about 6 months.
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20 years strong, babeh.

I mean, aside from my devilishly good looks, rapier wit and moderately sized cock, I have no clue why she ever gave me a second look.:biggrin:
 
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beardown07 said:
And on the other side of the advice spectrum...

Have you tried jerking off in the same bed, while she's sleeping and finishing on her hair?

I mean...I'm pretty sure that would let her know you mean business, and won't be a pushover.:noidea:

Might work...might not. I'm not as good at this as Peter.
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This is like 28 years ago and no shit either, none whatsoever! Avert your eyes, Pete!

Bunny had this sex manual and it had a piece in it about doing something similar to that using the hair on her head but she was wide awake. I went rogue in Bunny's hair once and she let me do it. It wasn't all that great or anything but I won't ever forget it!
 
dbldwn711 said:
Peter has given him excellent advice IMO. Almost each time he did I gave his advice a positive ratings. I didn’t feel it was appropriate to repeat what Peter said so instead I tried to be make him laugh with some humor. I tried to lighten his mood. To me that was my way of “helping him”.

IMO you never tried to “help him”. You took his real life situation as an opportunity to get “back at him” for his jokes about religion. YOU were the one who took that stuff too seriously. YOU were the one who had a problem with it. It was YOU who came back at him… hard (no, I’m not gonna repeat it. It’s there for you to read). You did it NOT to help him but bc you were pissed off. He claims he saw right thru you. Maybe that’s what he meant.

If you don’t like what’s in a thread either ignore it or don’t go to the thread but stop kicking the guy when he’s down.
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Look I don’t have an issue with what you guys have been doing and the vast majority has been positive. I’m just saying a little nudge in the give counseling a shot would’ve been a good move and still could be.

As for me ”helping him” I didn’t really see where he needed my help and seemed to do be doing pretty well until this latest bombshell. Once that dropped this really quit being a “game”. At that point it’s not like he is going to listen to me but he will listen to you guys.

Now neither of you guys have any obligation to take my advice and that’s fine but I honestly do think there is an opportunity for you guys to hit a “Hail Mary“ and it would be great if it scored.


As for everything else I think you’re just seeing it from a different place than me and that’s fine it happens between us from time to time.
 
Peter Gozintite said:
I think WTs heart is in the right place, and being Catholic is going to make him judgemental, and vengeful by nature. Not really his fault.

I think parka acknowledges he isn't perfect. Would like to see him use the therapy to work on himself. It can't hurt to vent to someone, and I think takes a tremendous amount of courage to fully trust another person, and be honest/vulnerable enough to actually seek help.
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I am not vengeful by nature. Don’t think I didn’t see that.
 
Wild Turkey said:
Look I don’t have an issue with what you guys have been doing and the vast majority has been positive. I’m just saying a little nudge in the give counseling a shot would’ve been a good move and still could be.

As for me ”helping him” I didn’t really see where he needed my help and seemed to do be doing pretty well until this latest bombshell. Once that dropped this really quit being a “game”. At that point it’s not like he is going to listen to me but he will listen to you guys.

Now neither of you guys have any obligation to take my advice and that’s fine but I honestly do think there is an opportunity for you guys to hit a “Hail Mary“ and it would be great if it scored.


As for everything else I think you’re just seeing it from a different place than me and that’s fine it happens between us from time to time.
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nudge? How much more explicit should I have been?

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