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I was dead because I woke up at 4:30 yesterday morning and couldn’t fall back asleep.

Also, I’ve been sleeping in the recliner because our bed sucks and my back is destroyed every night I sleep on it. The trade off for my back feeling good is that I end up sleeping worse.
Get a new bed, already!
 
morning all

hung outside for a bit last night, watched some football. Woke up at a 330 am, couldn't really get back to sleep. Dragging a bit this morning
 
true story

one of my best friends is a chick, first girl i went on a date with after my exwife bailed on me. truth be told, shes enamored with me. always has been. tells me she loves me, but we're friends. we used to fuck around, but its been years. she actually got sick of chasing me, so she introduced me to my psycho ex.
so, we spend time together. friends. shes got a lot of qualities i want in someone, but shes missing some key ones. mostly, i smoke a shit ton of pot. i dont drink. she loves wine, and hates pot...tho her entire family smokes (shes not anti pot, and is fine with me doing what i need to, but its a big issue for me). she also has asymptomatic MS (which i have been telling her for years, it is her answer).

im at a crossroads i guess. shes great, would treat me like a freakin king...but...my conundrum is as follows:

-shes not "hot". im holding out for another hot one. superficial, maybe, but i know what i am attracted to.
- i want a girl i can smoke with. its huge for me. she insists it would be fine. i dunno. it would feel hollow me to. i like to wake and bake on a saturday, hit a diner, and do shit. thats not her bag.
- bonus is, her brother is the undersecretary to a US ambassador. hes in serbia right now. he goes, all over the world, to wherever he gets "stationed". she gets to go visit him for weeks ata time, with full US govt privileges. Limos, guards, dining at state houses...she goes once a year to wherever he is, and gets basically a free vacation. shes always asking me to go. that would be pretty awesome.

so, my problem is...shes awesome, deserves someone who REALLY wants her badly (which i dont, tho i do love her)...

but she insists we should get married and says "you'll fall in love with me eventually".

ugh

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Ruling @whatever duke's name is
 
true story

one of my best friends is a chick, first girl i went on a date with after my exwife bailed on me. truth be told, shes enamored with me. always has been. tells me she loves me, but we're friends. we used to fuck around, but its been years. she actually got sick of chasing me, so she introduced me to my psycho ex.
so, we spend time together. friends. shes got a lot of qualities i want in someone, but shes missing some key ones. mostly, i smoke a shit ton of pot. i dont drink. she loves wine, and hates pot...tho her entire family smokes (shes not anti pot, and is fine with me doing what i need to, but its a big issue for me). she also has asymptomatic MS (which i have been telling her for years, pit is her answer).

im at a crossroads i guess. shes great, would treat me like a freakin king...but...my conundrum is as follows:

-shes not "hot". im holding out for another hot one. superficial, maybe, but i know what i am attracted to.
- i want a girl i can smoke with. its huge for me. she insists it would be fine. i dunno. it would feel hollow me to. i like to wake and bake on a saturday, hit a diner, and do shit. thats not her bag.
- bonus is, her brother is the undersecretary to a US ambassador. hes in serbia right now. he goes, all over the world, to wherever he gets "stationed". she gets to go visit him for weeks ata time, with full US govt privileges. Limos, guards, dining at state houses...she goes once a year to wherever he is, and gets basically a free vacation. shes always asking me to go. that would be pretty awesome.

so, my problem is...shes awesome, deserves someone who REALLY wants her badly (which i dont, tho i do love her)...

but she insists we should get married and says "you'll fall in love with me eventually".

ugh

end rant
If you don’t want to have sex with her, probably a deal breaker.

On the other hand, your only complaints seem to be that she isn’t a 10 and she doesn’t smoke weed.....so....
 
true story

one of my best friends is a chick, first girl i went on a date with after my exwife bailed on me. truth be told, shes enamored with me. always has been. tells me she loves me, but we're friends. we used to fuck around, but its been years. she actually got sick of chasing me, so she introduced me to my psycho ex.
so, we spend time together. friends. shes got a lot of qualities i want in someone, but shes missing some key ones. mostly, i smoke a shit ton of pot. i dont drink. she loves wine, and hates pot...tho her entire family smokes (shes not anti pot, and is fine with me doing what i need to, but its a big issue for me). she also has asymptomatic MS (which i have been telling her for years, it is her answer).

im at a crossroads i guess. shes great, would treat me like a freakin king...but...my conundrum is as follows:

-shes not "hot". im holding out for another hot one. superficial, maybe, but i know what i am attracted to.
- i want a girl i can smoke with. its huge for me. she insists it would be fine. i dunno. it would feel hollow me to. i like to wake and bake on a saturday, hit a diner, and do shit. thats not her bag.
- bonus is, her brother is the undersecretary to a US ambassador. hes in serbia right now. he goes, all over the world, to wherever he gets "stationed". she gets to go visit him for weeks ata time, with full US govt privileges. Limos, guards, dining at state houses...she goes once a year to wherever he is, and gets basically a free vacation. shes always asking me to go. that would be pretty awesome.

so, my problem is...shes awesome, deserves someone who REALLY wants her badly (which i dont, tho i do love her)...
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but she insists we should get married and says "you'll fall in love with me eventually".

ugh

end rant
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you can't hangout with someone when they're not high?
Grow up
 
If you don’t want to have sex with her, probably a deal breaker.

On the other hand, your only complaints seem to be that she isn’t a 10 and she doesn’t smoke weed.....so....
the problem is, i do. bu thats it. shes not for casual stuff these days.
 
Get a new bed, already!
We are getting a Sleep Number. But have to wait for the Friends and Family discount in October when my cousin’s husband can give us one. Will save us like 50%.
 
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you can't hangout with someone when they're not high?
Grow up
nah, thats not it. we hang out a lot, took her out for her bday dinner last week. smoking is s thing i like to share with a significant other, always have.

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the problem is, i do. bu thats it. shes not for casual stuff these days.
So you seem to be attracted to her on some level. So legit the only complaints are that she isn’t a 10 and doesn’t smoke weed...even though she doesn’t care if you do?

JFC...
 
nah, thats not it. we hang out a lot, took her out for her bday dinner last week. smoking is s thing i like to share with a significant other, always have.

read better

I read just fine. Just simplified your points.

emotional stability generally stays. Being hot fades
 
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We are getting a Sleep Number. But have to wait for the Friends and Family discount in October when my cousin’s husband can give us one. Will save us like 50%.

Are those things like split mattresses?
 
So you seem to be attracted to her on some level. So legit the only complaints are that she isn’t a 10 and doesn’t smoke weed...even though she doesn’t care if you do?

JFC...
Yeah....I get his conundrum to a point. If you're not into it, then you're not.


But if it's just because you think you might be able to find someone hotter.... Eh
 
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Yeah....I get his conundrum to a point. If you're not into it, then you're not.


But if it's just because you think you might be able to find someone hotter.... Eh

Can't fault the guy. Some things are just deal breakers.

Like small teddies.

I get it.
 
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