I'm already tired of the SIL wedding planning. She thought she was going to do it on Thanksgiving weekend until she realized none of her nieces and nephews except my 2 would be there. So she then made the right choice and moved it up a week. Then I find out I'm in the thing as a groomsmen. I hardly even know her fiance. Turns out my BIL's pregnant gf that hardly any of us knows is a bridesmaid as well. My SIL & my MIL have been calling my wife to get things rolling. I'm going to be spending quite a bit of time at my parents' house on the farm to avoid this.