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basement bias said:
Had to remind myself that I'm retired from coaching for now and that I will not coach flag football yet. Buck's coaches got embarrassed by the other team's coaches. It was hard to watch. I was hoping it was because of rules, but I found that to be wrong when the other team went zone and shut them down.
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i know you said not to, but i don't see how we can't call you coach. such an inspiration.
 
@gobucks0409 you don't seem like you are in a very trusting relationship right now... Might want to think about hitting the eject button
 
basement bias said:
Had to remind myself that I'm retired from coaching for now and that I will not coach flag football yet. Buck's coaches got embarrassed by the other team's coaches. It was hard to watch. I was hoping it was because of rules, but I found that to be wrong when the other team went zone and shut them down.
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This is the only reason I became a coach. Got on the team. Became OC. Pushed HC out. My team now.
 
RobBase ( + poster) said:
This is the only reason I became a coach. Got on the team. Became OC. Pushed HC out. My team now.
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I can't really stand the folks at Buck's school, therefore I won't coach his team. His coaches actually went to my mom's alma mater which is one of the worst football schools in all of the area, but in the best small high school football conference in Ohio. They are the only school never to win or appear in a state title for football from their conference. Pretty sure all the others have won a title.
 
basement bias said:
I can't really stand the folks at Buck's school, therefore I won't coach his team. His coaches actually went to my mom's alma mater which is one of the worst football schools in all of the area, but in the best small high school football conference in Ohio. They are the only school never to win or appear in a state title for football from their conference. Pretty sure all the others have won a title.
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I’ve two other sons coming up I’ll coach in flag, but I’m hoping once the oldest goes to tackle he will all set. We’ve got his middle school and high school coaches all set up.
 
RobBase ( + poster) said:
I’ve two other sons coming up I’ll coach in flag, but I’m hoping once the oldest goes to tackle he will all set. We’ve got his middle school and high school coaches all set up.
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Nice. Buck's school just had their most successful coach retire. Who knows how long the current will stay.
 
basement bias said:
Had to remind myself that I'm retired from coaching for now and that I will not coach flag football yet. Buck's coaches got embarrassed by the other team's coaches. It was hard to watch. I was hoping it was because of rules, but I found that to be wrong when the other team went zone and shut them down.
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I coached a couple of flag teams, and played a bunch of it. Its so easy to d,o if you have one kid that has a good arm, and a couple that can run proper routes.
 
kobesgame said:
There is nothing more infuriating to me than someone telling me that something is urgent and yet there is absolutely nothing urgent about it.
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this spring we were sent contract and told it was extremely urgent our office and lawyers we work with put it to top of pile and made it #1 priority and returned contract to customer with our edits for them to review

Took them about ~4 weeks to even look at our response and another ~2 weeks to negotiate the edits


BUT WAS EXTREMELY URGENT
 
@gobucks0409 Only you can decide if it's worth sticking it out. But you need to tell her either she trusts you or she doesn't and if she doesn't, there isn't much of a future because you'll never last

I trust Mrs Pnk with anything.

Mrs Pnk, suprisingly, trusts me as well. I go on trips with friends, I have female friends i hang out, and outside one particular person (for dumb reasons, but it was easier to accept her one limitation on my social interactions) so long as she's aware who I'm with, she doesn't care
 
@gobucks0409 incase enough people haven't weighed in on your relationship, I just wanted to add something. Trust is a key factor in any relationship. I trust my wife, and she trusts me. If we didn't, there is no way it works. If she is treating you like you cheated on her, by going to a strip club on a bachelor party, there is an issue with her. She needs to figure out if she wants to have an honest trusting relationship, or if she just wants someone to control. It sounds like her insecurities are out of control, and it might be time to let her know that if she cant trust you, then it her problem to figure out, and let you know when she is ready to treat you like a grown man, and not her kid.

If there isnt trust, there isnt shit to work with there, and you will always be treated like a child. I trust my wife, but if she cheats, I have to move on. Until she gives me a reason to not trust her, I have to live with what she does when I am not around. No reason to fret about anything, without a reason.

Unless this is a two way street, and you are not allowing her to do certain things, and put restrictions on her activities. Then you go have your co-dependent relationship until the wheels fall off.
 
gobucks0409 said:
I've told her as much... If there's no trust, then what are we doing. I trust her just fine. Consistently golfing with mainly male colleagues, went on a trip to Vegas.

I didn't think I'd be feeling like this today after yesterday was so positive. Haven't heard anything from her all day... Giving it a 60% chance I start packing this weekend.
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It sucks, but its better than being miserable for years with someone. If its like this already, its probably time. good luck bro, either way.
 
@gobucks0409 take it from me a guy who was in a relationship for almost 10 years who never should have been in one for that long.. We were great the first 4/5 years and then it all went downhill quickly.. She didn't really want to be around my family and didn't really like my mother (I could tell) and wasn't very social and I got the feeling she was spying on me when I was out... Now I didn't do anything at all I was always with my friends I have known for years and the woman I was with had a bf and were committed to them and I wasn't going to try anything...

Don't just keep it going to "keep it going". I feel as if I wasted the best parts of my years and years I will never get back...
 
was thinking, @kobesgame are you sure the cat moved a box, unlocked a door, and bounced or do you maybe need to start keeping a closer eye on deuce?
 
kobesgame said:
Is this just about the strip club or is there other shit? Because I wouldn’t shoot the horse over the strip club stuff, but if the list is long, it’s at least time to consider spending your weekend looking for apartments.

Also, she needs to let that strip club shit go. Even when I get pissed at Mr. Kobe for something (like snoozing his alarm 8 times this morning when it was the first day I could sleep past 5am all week), those types of things should last a couple hours….not days.
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Hahaha @gobucks0409 went to a strip club?

The gf would hate me
 
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Bender said:
was thinking, @kobesgame are you sure the cat moved a box, unlocked a door, and bounced or do you maybe need to start keeping a closer eye on deuce?
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I don’t think Deuce is a serial killer, but it’s at least plausible.
 
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