We are on the mend, Handi, but no, not yet. Bunny still keeps her own separate bedroom and it has been 4 1/2 months since this crap started and I have ZERO desire to stay in a loveless relationship. Something MUST change. I absolutely refuse to turn into those kind of older couples that co-exist together in separate bedrooms. I want Bunny to be my best friend, soulmate and everything that goes with that.
On the other hand it's not fair to Bunny that I depend on her for pretty much everything and that is how Dr Dean and the VA are helping. The VA even has a program to help me meet new friends! I want a new friend that is a nature lover and likes to hike and fish.
And Handi, I haven't done anything so wrong with Bunny that can't be fixed, so I am optimistic about my relationship with Bunny.